Servant leadership, Followship and Gratitude


The relationship between leadership, management and organisational performance is well recognised. Less discussed, but equally important — is the relationship between leadership and followership, and how both shape culture, safety and success.

Over time, I have become increasingly interested not simply in leadership itself, but in the ethical responsibilities that sit beneath it: servant leadership, values including gratitude, stewardship and the ability to both lead and follow well.

No one leads all the time.

Even those in senior leadership positions are still followers in many aspects of life. We follow legislation, professional standards, evidence, system leaders, communities and values. We are influenced by those who model integrity, courage and humanity well.

For me, leadership has never been about status or authority. My natural style is servant leadership, creating opportunities for others, supporting people to grow, and trying to build environments where individuals feel valued and able to contribute fully.

At the centre of this approach is servant leadership and gratitude.

The strongest organisations I have experienced are rarely built around charismatic individuals. They are built around communities of people who feel connected to a shared purpose and who understand that every individual matters.

This is where followership becomes important.

Followership is not passive compliance. Good followership requires judgement, courage and integrity. It means understanding the mission, contributing meaningfully, challenging ethically when needed, and supporting collective goals even when circumstances are difficult.

When followership breaks down, organisations become distracted and fragmented. Morale falls, opportunities are lost, and quality and safety can suffer.

Good followers — much like good leaders — demonstrate:

  • Ethical judgement
  • Competence and accountability
  • Honesty, trust and courage
  • Engagement and critical thinking
  • Compassion for themselves and others
  • A willingness to support growth and change

Leadership and followership should never exist in opposition to one another. They are interdependent.

This aligns closely with the philosophy of servant leadership first described by Robert K. Greenleaf in 1970:

“The servant-leader is servant first.”

That idea continues to resonate today.

Servant leadership is less a toolkit and more a mindset. It asks leaders to place service before ego, influence before authority, and stewardship before control.

For me, servant leadership means:

  • Listening before directing
  • Creating space for different perspectives
  • Supporting others to succeed
  • Leading with humility rather than status
  • Taking responsibility for the culture we create
  • Recognising that people are not simply resources, but human beings with strengths, vulnerabilities and potential

Importantly, servant leadership is not about avoiding difficult conversations or unpopular decisions. Leadership still requires accountability, challenge and clarity. However, those actions can still be undertaken with kindness, fairness and respect.

I also believe leadership styles must adapt to circumstance. In crisis situations, more directive approaches may sometimes be necessary. But even then, our ethical principles should remain constant.

The leadership attributes I value most are:

  • Justice
  • Humility
  • Trust
  • Respect
  • Shared vision
  • Collective responsibility
  • Gratitude

Perhaps most importantly, we must recognise the power of collective voice.

Real and lasting change rarely comes from one individual alone. It emerges when people feel heard, connected and empowered to contribute. Communities, teams and organisations become stronger when leadership is shared and when people believe their voice matters.

Some of the most meaningful leadership moments I have witnessed have not involved authority at all. They have involved courage, compassion, honesty and ordinary people choosing to support one another well.

In increasingly complex and uncertain systems, that may matter more than ever.


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